Along with giving a different type of pleasure than your own hands can offer, sex toys can open up a new world of adventure that can bring you and your partner(s) closer together. Perhaps now you'd like to try a sex toy like, anal butt plug, bullet vibrator or a dildo. If you're an experienced dildo user and want to add another to your collection. Many colors and a huge selection of materials, shapes, and sizes exist. Where to begin? Follow these steps to choose the right dildo.

Realistic Or Not?

The most significant consideration when buying a dildo is whether you want it to look like a real penis. Some people love the thought of a life-like visual, but others aren't like it. Dildos come in all kinds of realistic shapes and various sizes. You can also get a dark brown dildo if you have a color preference. You can get them big or small. You can get them with balls or without. You can get them curved or straight. You can even get them with retractable foreskin.

Figure Out A Shape

Once you've decided how much realism you want, select the shape you'd like. Do you want your dildo to have a just curved tip to hit the G-spot or p-spot? Do you need a design that tapers from a bigger base to a slimmer tip? Do you want the shaft to be curved or completely straight? Figuring out what you want your dildo to achieve will help you decide the kind of shape you should select. If you want something for anal sex, a tapered structure will help with penetration. For G-spot sensation, a curved tip is going to work best.

Material Concerns

Dildos are made from a variety of materials. If you want to sterilize your toy, you should choose a non-porous material such as silicone, wood, glass, or stainless steel. If you want a dildo that requires very little exterior lubricant, you should look for a dildo made of plastic, glass, stainless steel, or wood. If you need something else to bend fully with your body, check out dildos made of PVC, TPR/TPE, silicone, or others.

Pick A Size

If you're ordering online, ensure you have a solid grasp of how dildos are measured. A moderate dildo has a diameter of roughly 1.5" and a length of 7". However, depending on your choices, you might want to go for something larger or smaller. Some dildos are just 4" in length, whereas on the longer end of double-ended dildos, some toys have a length of above 15.

Think About The Base

If you plan on using your dildo for anal penetration or with a strap-on harness, you must choose a toy with a flared base. Some dildos have a base that provides unique features, such as one that doubles as a suction cup for hands-free pleasure. Many dildo users also swear by a spread base because it offers a good hand-hold for harder thrusting. 

What About Texture?

Some dildos are smooth, making them very easy to insert, even without much lubricant. However, some people swear by the pleasure a textured dildo can provide. This texture can be extremely enjoyable. Textures include ripples, bumps, ridges, veins, swirls, and more. If you think some extra texture might improve your experience, it's worth looking at the options.

Special Add-on Features

Do you hate cleaning your toy after its use? Some toys are designed with fewer nooks and crannies or with material safe to boil for easy cleaning. Would you like to use your dildo hands-free? Do you want a  thrusting dildo? This dildo is best for those who appreciate realism, with veins, a lifelike head and balls. Don't forget to check out a dildo that's equipped with a suction cup. Some dildos have unique features that might enhance your experience.